Memories that made my Relationship

December 2004 (thats a long time ago)



I had been at my job for about 9 months when a new guys started... He was thin, short, blonde and full of himself, oh and he was engaged. He annoyed me with his some what arrogant ways and his "better than the next way to..." I chose to stay clear of this fellow....



March 2005



I like this guy hes awesome but why is he friends with the arrogant guy.. Gosh

Hanging out the arrogant guy attitdude slipped away (vanished if you will) and a nice but cocky guy showed up.. He was actually a decent friend.. and he was my mans best friend..



May 2005



Accidents can change your life (you dont even have to be in them)

I lost him, I burried him, I stood tall and I moved along It was hard but I had to do it... I was no longer friends with the arrogant guy... No reason to be.. I lost my way after that May. I lost who I was. I chose a different path... Almost a year and half would pass...



August 2006


Its amazing like accidents how a phone call can change your world...
RING RING... "Hello", "heather", "Yes", "Josh is dead", "ERIC THAT IS NOT FUNNY" CLICK, silence....
RING RING... "Its not funny Eric Its not",... Heather pauses "Josh S. Died tonight" Eric screams.. Silence....

September-October 2006.

After we buried Josh in August everything began to change. I started running with a younger crowd due to my second job.. and started to act out in ways that were just not me... I started hanging out with a new girl (we will call her R). One night I got a call from Eric and he wanted to escape reality (which he was doing every thursday-Sunday) so R and I went and picked him up. R had a huge crush on Eric and well that was cool with me.. I could have cared way less than most.. lol.. We all hung out together...

December 2006

FA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA!!!!!!!! Holiday season.. Coworker Christmas party... The drinks they were flowing, the music was playing and well Hormones where high.... Eric and I were a bit tipsy, to say the least and for some strange reason that night WE KISSED.. Okay okay.. We totally made out.. This would be the start of what is...

By Christmas I was so infacturated with him.. I was so school girl crushing.. Although he pretty much made it clear he didnt want to be with me "WINK WINK" Every weekend you could find us together.. at least one or both nights... but that was that.. Phone conversations and well you get the picture...

My best friend Karen, she knew I was falling for him.. She knew I was liking him...

April 2007

Again a Phone call can change everything..
6:00AM
"Hello" tiredly i answered the phone.... "I am on my way"...
Eric and I returned to the house to rest a bit by around 11:00am we were up and at em. I was driving him here and there, when i realized I had to pay my insurance.. So i drove to my dads house.. I introduced my dad and him and that was that. I took him to his friends house.. NO ANSWER...
So i drove to my moms... INSTANT CONNECTION.. my mom, step dad and Eric were best of friends... INSTANTLY.
We went and got my bestfriend.. and spent the night all hanging out down at moms...

May1-May 31, 2007

Chicago-------------------inserperaable on weekends, We spent so much time being together.. (I was totally falling for him.. Totally loosing myself.....) Did he feel the same way???

BAM... More news... Pregnant..... (How do I tell him)

The next few months our RELATIONSHIP was very complicated... Very stressfull and very dificult...

July 2007....
He wants to be there.. He wants to be part of this and this world.. WONDERFUL....

September 2007....

BIG MONTH.. WE GOT OUR OWN PLACE..
ACKWARD.. TO SAY THE LEAST.....
I never thought about waking up everyday in the same house with him.. right next to him.. It was a learning experience...

September to Early October 2007

Loss........ HURT.... SADNESS AND PAIN....

October 2007 (12th)

"Marry Me" .... Wedding bells....
How can this be? I never thought in a life time he woudl want to marry me.. EXCITED..

October-April 2008

PLANNING OUR WEDDING..
WEDDIG BLISS... Starting our life together.... Wonderful...

April-August 2008

Settling in to our new relationship our Marriage.. (Life is Good)

September 2008

THE BIG MOVE TO DALLAS..
Leaving our family.. but in the end strengthing our family unit.

October 2008

"POSITIVE" "PREGNANT" "PARENTS"

The test says yes...

The doctor confirmed.. We are going to be parents..

October-April 2009

Waiting on our bundle of joy to arrive...


Its amazing that over just a few years how people and relationships change.. My time line can show you that.. and trust me.. I left a ton of what happened out...